Take a moment today to meditate on this thought; triggers versus abuse. Some will come into your life to show you what you need to change to make you a better person. They will be there to guide you to things you have kept hidden from yourself so that you may release and grow from it. You have often asked to learn these things and these people are a direct response to your specific request.
However, if you have cleared what you need to in the highest/best way (an extra set of eyes will help in these situations) and the ‘assaults’ continue then a line has been crossed from being a trigger to abuse. You are responsible for you and, if you have done all you can within yourself and for the other person, then it becomes an issue for The Universe to handle. It is not your ‘job’ to fix them. Release the person with appreciation, gratitude, Unconditional Love and know that you have learned a very important thing about being human…knowing when to say, “Enough is enough.” ~ Creator