Boundaries

What do you do if someone has hurt your feelings or violated a boundary you have set for yourself?  The most important thing to remember is that your energy has played a part in the situation.  This is not saying that you are wrong….it is saying that you have a choice on how to react to it.  Was it an honest mistake?  Then take a deep breath and forgive the situation.  However, if you choose to set a boundary, allow others violate it, then loudly proclaim your hurts only to do it again keeps you in the same space you were in the beginning.  Remember, growth begins with you…..just do it. ~ Creator

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14 thoughts on “Boundaries

  1. Reblogged this on Sirian Heaven and commented:
    What do you do if someone has hurt your feelings or violated a boundary you have set for yourself? The most important thing to remember is that your energy has played a part in the situation. This is not saying that you are wrong….it is saying that you have a choice on how to react to it. Was it an honest mistake? Then take a deep breath and forgive the situation. However, if you choose to set a boundary, allow others violate it, then loudly proclaim your hurts only to do it again keeps you in the same space you were in the beginning. Remember, growth begins with you…..just do it. ~ Creator

  2. violetmern says:

    Reblogged this on Live in Love

  3. Boudichung says:

    Refuse to do what you don’t like ,at least those you don’t identify .
    Don’t do those things which make you feel uncomfortable .
    Be honest to yourself ,we don’t need to live for others.

  4. Wang says:

    At any moment, you have a choice, that either leads you closer to your spirit or further away from it.
    在任何时刻你都能做选择,使你更靠近或远离真正的你。

    – Thich Nhat Hanh, Buddhist Monk释一行,佛教禅宗

  5. Wang says:

    He that always gives way to others will end in having no principles of his own.
    永远对他人让步的人,最终将没有自己的原则.

    – Aesop, Storyteller 伊索, 说书人

  6. Wang says:

    如果有人伤害你的感情或侵犯你为自己设定的界线
    你要怎么做 ?
    最重要是要记得
    这种状况其实有你自己的能量参与其中.
    这并不是说你错了…..
    而是说当面对这种情况时,你是可以选择的.
    你真的做错了吗?
    那么,深呼吸,原谅已发生的状况.
    但是如果你的选择是设定一个界线,却又允许他人侵入,
    然后大声嚷嚷说你被人伤害,
    只会继续让你停留在与开始时相同的位置上.
    记得, 成长由你开始…..只要去做. ~造物主

  7. Wang says:

    The person who pays an ounce of principle for a pound of popularity gets badly cheated.
    用一盎司原则来换取一磅人气的人将非常得不偿失.

    – Ronald Reagan, 40th U.S. president
    罗纳德‧雷根 ,美国第 40 任总统

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